WHY YOU CAN'T GET OVER HIM

Wednesday, September 23, 2015

Edited in Photoshop by Esther Maris
You've been counting days, weeks, months and it's unbelievable that he's still on your mind. His scent that you miss, his smile that melts you and the image of him still makes your heart beat. Confused and frustrated you want to forget everything. It was a chapter of your life that you don't want to remember anymore. But why? Why still him? Let me say the reasons you've been dying to deny.

YOU THINK HE'S THE ONE

YOU THINK HE MISSES YOU TOO

YOU CANT ADMIT THAT IT'S OVER

YOU'VE MET SOMEONE ELSE BUT YOU IGNORED, YOU EVEN PLANNED TO USE THAT PERSON TO MAKE HIM JEALOUS

YOU THOUGHT IT WAS ALL YOUR FAULT AND HOPING HE'D GIVE YOU ANOTHER CHANCE TO MAKE IT ALL RIGHT

YOU GAVE HIM EVERYTHING.. EVEN THE THINGS YOU'RE SCARED OF GIVING, YOU LET HIM HAVE IT

YOU THINK HE'S THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN MAKE YOU HAPPY

YOU THINK YOU'RE THE ONLY ONE THAT CAN CHANGE HIM

YOU WANT HIM TO REGRET LETTING YOU GO, SO YOU MADE YOURSELF "BETTER" AND LET HIM NOTICE BUT YOU'RE STILL IGNORED

YOU'RE SCARED TO START OVER..

It hurts when you invested a lot into a relationship and you'll get nothing from it. Truth is, acceptance itself is hard to do. You have to realize that he doesn't miss you, that he won't send you a good morning text anymore. You have to face it that when things are over, it's over. You have to give yourself a chance to know someone else, someone who could make you feel the way you made him feel before.. You have to know that it was not just your fault. You've tried. he tried, you both tried but things didn't worked out. He's not the only one that could make you smile, there are a lot of reasons to be happy. Don't expect for a person to change for you, a person should change for themselves. He didn't fought to keep you so stop thinking that he will fight just to have you back. Who said it was easy to start over? It's not. But once you'll get through it, you'll see how strong you've become as a person and how great it feels to be able to conquer the broken part in you.

YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY

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7 comments

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  2. I agree with everything you wrote here! Here's to moving on :)

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  3. Interesting! I agree with you on most of these points♥♥

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  4. i love that last sentence about feeling proud of yourself for going through such an ordeal. when something bothers me, including a heartbreak, inhaling and exhaling every now and then really helps me accept the truth and let go little by little. people think heartbreak is nothing but devastation and frustration but i really find beauty in that process, because you're coming out of that dark tunnel a new, or at least refined, person. I hope things are good at your end :)

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  5. You are right everyone deserve a second chance and to be happy.
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  6. Totally agree doll, such a lovely read!!!
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